"Listen, if he's not doing anything to keep you,
then why are you fighting to stay?
Indeed we can't choose who we will fall in love with,
but that's definitely can't be an excuse for a guy
to behave badly to his girlfriend
and makes his girlfriend feeling
awful,
unwanted,
and unloved,
just because they want you to get the "message"
to give up because they're not interested in you anymore
or they're still not ready for relationship
or whatever the fuck his reason is.
And in my opinion, if you leave someone
at least tell them why,
because what's more painful than being abandoned,
is knowing that you're not worth an explanation.
And he did makes you feel really bad
about yourself because he really "shows" you
that you're not worth an explanation.
I know it must be hurt you to hear this
from a stranger you met on Secret,
but seriously,
you're already being too kind for him,
and tolerate him enough more than you should,
please don't waste your time on this guy.
You really deserves someone
who's as excited about you as you're about him.
Have a good life.
Never think about him again
Karma is going to slap him hard on the face 10 times worse."
Seriously, best love advice I ever recieve.
And I never thought it would comes from a stranger
that willing to take his/her time to read my story.
Have a good life for you too, Purple Ice Cream :)